A set of Rhoads V-Pro Street lifters are going on a 455 with a Crane 041. Adjustable Crowers also new. I've read the procedure on how to setup the Rhoads lifters, but nothing about determining new push rod length. It's odd that Rhoads assumes that your push rods are correct length and doesn't even bring it up on the published instructions on the website. Not the best technical writing, but it's OK.
My guess:
Set the rocker nut down half the lift with the feeler gauge installed to account for the lash you'll use to reduce duration. Install push road with the cup seated in the bottom of the lifter. What else? Or am I way off base?